Preserve Family Memories & Bond Across Generations
Why Grandparents Hold the Keys to Your Family’s Story
Grandparents are like living history books. They carry stories, traditions, and memories that no one else can share. But how often do we take the time to ask them about their lives?
In her heartwarming book Who is Your Bubbe, And Where Can She Be?, author Sharyn Diamond reminds us that connecting with grandparents isn’t just fun—it’s a way to keep your family’s legacy alive.
Let’s explore 10 simple questions to help kids and families bond with grandparents while saving precious memories.
The Magic of Asking Questions
Questions open doors. When you ask grandparents about their past, you show them they matter. You also learn about your roots, culture, and the experiences that shaped your family.
Sharyn Diamond’s book includes a “Kids’ Activity” section with similar questions, encouraging families to sit down together and listen. These conversations create bridges between generations, turning ordinary afternoons into unforgettable moments.
Ready to start? Here are 10 questions grandparents will love answering—and why they matter.
1. “What Was Your Favorite Hobby as a Child?”
Before video games and smartphones, kids played outside, read books, or built forts. Asking this question sparks stories about simple joys. Maybe your grandma climbed trees, or your grandpa collected baseball cards. Their answers might surprise you—and inspire your own hobbies!
2. “What Was School Like When You Were Young?”
School today looks nothing like it did decades ago. Grandparents might share tales of walking miles to school, using chalkboards, or wearing uniforms. These stories help you appreciate how education has changed—and what parts (like making friends!) stay the same.
3. “How Did You Meet Grandma/Grandpa?”
Every love story is special. Whether it’s a funny first date or a childhood friendship that turned into romance, this question lets grandparents relive happy memories. It also shows how your family began!
4. “What’s Your Proudest Moment?”
Grandparents have lived full lives. Their proudest moment could be raising kids, starting a career, or overcoming a challenge. This question celebrates their achievements and teaches you about resilience.
5. “What Family Traditions Did You Grow Up With?”
Traditions connect generations. Maybe your family’s holiday recipes or yearly reunions started with your grandparents. Sharyn Diamond’s book highlights traditions like lighting Shabbos candles or making latkes—practices that keep culture alive.
6. “What Was Your Childhood Home Like?”
Imagine a house without Wi-Fi or central heating! Grandparents might describe sharing bedrooms, growing gardens, or listening to radio shows. These details paint a vivid picture of their world.
7. “What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?”
Wisdom comes with age. This question invites grandparents to reflect on lessons learned. Their answers—like “Be kinder to siblings” or “take more risks”—might guide you, too.
8. “What’s Your Favorite Family Memory with Me?”
Flip the script! Let grandparents share what they cherish about you. Their answer could become your favorite memory someday.
9. “What Were Your Parents (My Great-Grandparents) Like?”
This question digs deeper into your family tree. You’ll learn about ancestors you never met, uncovering traits or talents that trickled down to you.
10. “How Do You Want to Be Remembered?”
It’s a big question, but it matters. Grandparents might say they want to be remembered for their love, humor, or faith. Their answer becomes a guiding light for your family.
How to Make the Most of These Questions
Set aside time for a relaxed chat. Bring snacks (grandparents love feeding people!), a notebook, or a recorder. Let the conversation flow naturally—don’t rush.
If your grandparent mentions a recipe, holiday, or old photo, ask to see it! In Who is Your Bubbe, And Where Can She Be?, Sharyn Diamond includes spaces for photos and recipes, turning talks into keepsakes.
Why This Matters for Kids (and Grandparents!)
Kids gain a sense of identity by knowing where they come from. Grandparents feel valued when their stories are heard. Together, you create a treasure trove of memories that future generations will cherish. As Sharyn Diamond writes, “You’ll be glad you did as you grow up and fill their shoes someday!”
Keep the Conversation Going
Once you’ve asked these questions, go further! Create a family tree, cook a recipe from your grandparent’s childhood, or write down their stories in a journal. Little actions keep their legacy alive.
A Book That Brings Families Closer
Sharyn Diamond’s Who is Your Bubbe, And Where Can She Be? is a toolkit for connection. With activities, recipes, and heartfelt stories, it guides families to celebrate their unique history. Whether you’re a grandparent, parent, or child, this book reminds us that love and tradition are the greatest gifts we can pass down.
Explore Who is Your Bubbe, And Where Can She Be? Who is Your Bubbe, And Where Can She Be? to bond with your loved ones, preserve memories, and honor the extraordinary role of grandparents. Get your copy today and start writing your family’s next chapter.